If your child shows little interest in reading, take a look at why this might be. It is a challenging job for children, and it isn't a habit that could be easily formed from childhood. So, how can you instill a lasting love of reading to your children? You may try these three ways to inspire your child that may turn their reading into an exciting activity.
1. The Early Bedtime Trick
One of my favourite techniques to get my kids to read is only two words: "Early Bedtime''. A tip to help your children sleep better is getting them spending more time reading. Spending meaningful time together at the end of the day and before going to bed - reading together. Set their reading from 30 minutes to an hour before the official bedtime.
Reading aloud to children helps them bring the words to life. Discuss the story together, and ask questions like, "What do you expect to happen next?", "Why is it occurring?" You can change things up some nights by having your child read you a book!
Lastly, give him a choice: "Well, it's bedtime right now. Would you like to switch off the light, or would you like to continue the story?" Unless he drops off to sleep, he'll always choose to read for a little longer. Then, I'll give him independence, he can decide which books he wants to read until I come in to kiss him goodnight.
2. Summer Reading Incentives
There is pretty much any library in the country with a summer reading program that you can sign up for. If your local library doesn't have a summer reading program, you can create one at home with rewards for reading books. Allow your child to advance one square on a Monopoly board for each book that he reads. Or, if you want to have some more fun, let them roll the dice each time they read a book and have prizes available for passing specific points. Please make sure the rewards are something they're desirable.
3. Read The Book Before You And Your Child See The Movie
This is a rule in our home. We won't see any movies until we've read the book that we had an agreement on. So, if your child is awaiting to see the following Chronicles of Narnia movie, the next Harry Potter or the next Lemony Snicket movie, they'll have to read the book first. It doesn't matter if my husband or I read the book to the kids or the kids themselves read alone, we can only see the movies until they have to read the book first. It's an excellent way to entice reluctant readers.
That's it: three simple steps to turn your child into a passionate reader.
Do you know love, which is a simple concept, but it's never easy. Love is a romantic thing. Romance is when you show your partner how much you love them in your unique ways without any hidden motivations. You show your partner your affection for them, express your love by showing them that you are always thinking about them. Love is about selfless giving for the pure joy of making marriage a happy union.
Some people expect perfect love; however, it's impossible to achieve. Love isn't finding an ideal person but seeing an imperfect person perfectly. It's the sympathy and mature acceptance of imperfection. Consider how tedious a perfect love would be! But keep in mind that true love will fill the gap of imperfections. Romance isn't an exception either. With romance, you'll have hits and misses. What is suitable for one person may not be ideal for another. It's crucial to remember that romance should be about love, especially when you've had one of those misses.
We've all heard about the differences between men and women, whether in personality, physical, psychological, or social behaviour. But when it comes to the emotional requirements associated with love, we realize that men and women are considerably more similar than they are different. Above all, mention sex, men are more interested in gratification, while women are more interested in the harmony of two souls.
When you're in a romantic relationship, you can't think of it as a science to be studied or a project to be done; you have to utilize love to establish and remain it. Romance is a sort of art, which is regarded as a necessary catalyst in love, and should be expressed as creatively as possible. Because romance does not have a set of standards, each person will have their view of it, but it is generally the personal actions that make your partner feel warm with sincerity. Many people believe that romance is a luxury for them; nevertheless, this is not the case! We don't have to be in a great place, such as a luxury restaurant, to create a romantic atmosphere; we may watch movies together at home under the glow of sparkling candles. Romance may be as straightforward or as extravagant as you want to be!
Love is not a race to the finish line but rather a journey of trying and cultivating together on both sides. As a result, we must set our egos aside and put ourselves in the shoes of the other person to comprehend another person. When it comes to love, we must think with our emotions rather than with our intellect. You sacrifice for your partner not because you want something in return, but because you love the other person and want to offer them the best. That is how love is: always pure and sincerity.
Love is always voluntary, not forced; no one in this world has the authority to compel you to love or marry someone. Love has no guarantees or restrictions. It’s founded on freedom, so anyone who imposes themselves will never find genuine love.
For most young career people, they find nearly 35% of their time spent at workplaces other than at homes. That accounts to almost 9 hours a day of work, work, and work.
For this reason, most of the office people involved in this kind of situation find themselves out of the world because they simply find themselves not having time to meet other people anymore. That is why when such surveys are conducted, which show that 67.8% of the respondents, who work in different companies, are into the relationships with their colleagues. Due to time constraint and lack of social time, most of them choose to divert getting into the relationships at the office instead.
Being together - face to face - for more than 40 hours every week of the year, workplace seems to be a natural bleeding ground for such couples getting into romantic relationships naturally. Insiders unveil that a relationship in the office is inevitable because most of them happen to get along well spontanenously or must get along well with each other because of work; gradually, conflict subsides and good relationship builds. For instance, they revolve around the same environment 9 hours a day sharing common ideas of work, common interests, beliefs and backgrounds.
However, because of professional etiquette implemented at the office, companies despise the idea of having their employees being involved with each other into the relationsip. The boss believe that romantic relationship may bring negligence into the jobs. For those who cannot help when working in such situation as this and fall in love, here are some tips to keep you out of the brink of disaster:
1. Think first before deciding
Before deciding on whether or not to getting yourselve involved in a relationship at workplace, it is better to think first, probably a hundred times. Try to contemplate on possible consequences and benefits that you can get from the relationship. If the relationship does not work out, will you be ready to face the consequences?
2. Evaluate the prospect
Getting yourself involved into a relationship with a colleague should primarily be based on whether or not he/she is worthy for a date. You should evaluate on dating the person based on his/her position in the company, their prosperites, and the possible corollaries of the separation if it ever happens. For instance, if you wish to ask your colleague out for a date, try to contemplate first on the issues of rivalries between you and your officemates as well as the rough situation which you may encounter afterwards if breakup ever happens. Moreover, try to look on possible angles of biasness if boss dates their subordinates. The issue of “favoritism” may take place, and gossip among your employees may distract your concentration at work.
3. Be smart
Keep in mind the reason why God placed our minds above our hearts because He wanted the mind to rule above all. So if you are suddenly being snooped by some seniors in the office, do not be deceived yet. You may try to test out this person first with some tasks to assess his creditibility towards you. Such tasks should be focused on: Does he truly want to go to the end with you with happy ending?
Romance at workplace might occur at diverted scenarios, however, it would be better to hear these kinds of relationships can come to the end with such happy endings.
There are of many ways of expressing your love to her other than quoting the usual words "I Love You." Oftenly, the fire in relationships dies down along the road after a while and the feeling of her heart pounding with excitement when being with her significant half is not felt as strong as it was at the beginning. So, how would we get back that love, passion and warm feelings that once wrap around us in the beginning of the relationship?
There is a traditional saying "actions speak louder than words", so I have listed here 5 secrets of seductions that can help you show your partner how much truly you love her:
Flirt is a light-hearted seduction with the intention of conveying love! Why are you not sending a sexy text message or email while you be at work? This would remind the other person that you are thinking about her, it also increases the intensity of her love to you, thus, she would feel aroused and cannot keep looking forward to seeing you at home as soon as she is off from work.
According to Feng Shui, the colour of seduction of candles is red, and the ingredients are musk, patchouli, pine, cedar and juniper. And according to rumours from the acient time, this Feng Shui's secret of seduction can put back the romance in your relationships. Thus, why don't you fill your room with scented candles and turn off the lights just to relax in each others' arms? Only an extra effort strenghthens your relationship a long mile!
There is a rumour said that "the way to a man's heart is through his stomach," however, this thought seems to be also the secret of winning women's hearts too. Unveil your burning love to her by setting up a surprise dinner for you two with a focus on her. Add flowers, soft music in a romance restaurant to create and maintain a seductive love net among you. Please pay attention, you are forgetting one more ingredient that you cannot miss to adding to your romantic dinner, that is food. Do you know that: aphrodisiac foods such as oysters, chili, chocolate, figs, honey and walnuts are said to succour in stimulating your loved ones' hormones.
4. Love Letters and Poems
Why wouldn't you leave a love note for your loved one? This could be posted in the bathroom or kitchen before you leave for work. You may also leave a nice love poem under the pillow so that she can find it at night before bedtime or first thing in the morning. Or sending a hand-written love letter to his/her work address. These will stir up the fire of love in the privacy of your bedroom as well as in your relationship. If you want more ideas of how to write such love letters and poems, which for sure inspire of her love for you, such quotes can be taken from music or love poem books.
5. Get Away
Distractions in relationships are unavoidable such as work or children. Therefore, getting away alone with only you two together to warm-up your relationship is an option recommended. There are many short private vacations available for the weekend or just for a day. You may arrange a trip to the countryside, staying in a hotel over the weekend so that you can experience in a different environment than usual where you can both relax and concentrate on each other.
Using those five techniques showing your love to her will spice up your love life, strengthen your relationship, and keep her faithful with you for years - guaranteed !
Engagement Ceremony is believed to be one of the most extraordinary days in one's life. It is a chance showing off your true love to each other between a couple, and to declare it a remarkable landmark that will never be forgotten.
Of course following to that is the engagement rings - one special item representing of love which cannot be missed on the day. The engagement ring is supposed to stay on her hands forever, and every time she sees it, it reminds her of your glorious days together, and the undying devotion from her fiance. This is why the engagement ring always holds such an important role in a man's life prior to the engagement day. He has to spend such a huge amount of time to shop around because engagement ring is not just an ornament; it symbolizes the man's love, trust, dedication and the affection he has for his fiance. That is why from the ancient time, the ring is supposed to be diamond.
If the diamond engagement ring is only a mere ornament, you could always go for the costliest, the most flamboyant, the most glossy model to show off your wealth and status in the society. But as said, it's not just an ornament; it an expression of a man's love and care to his fiance. So, it has to be handpicked in a preferred manner that it would truly and wholly reflect his love to her.
Diamond is believed the best choice for the engagement ring, because diamond is precious, which is as precious as his life partner. It is the purest, the hardest, and the most expensive material available on earth. Above all, nothing can surpass the look of a diamond ring. Females are considered as the best creation of nature, thus presenting a Diamond Ring to her is like saying, "the man very lucky to have that best creation of nature belongs to him."
You can choose whatever looks you want in your shopping diamond ring: vintage, classic, contemporary, ultra modern, etc., whatever styles are desired by your partner. However, selecting the right kind and style of diamond not only depends upon the colour, texture and price, but also on the likings and the looks of your partner.
An elongated diamond, such as the Marquise or Oval can make short fingers look sleeker. A diamond is hard in character, extremely good looking and dazzling, will make the person who wears it happier, because it represents the glitter of love. So, there cannot be any other special reasons why not to buy an engagement ring in diamond. After all, the right diamond with the man's true love is the best thing that a woman can have in her life. So, please choose your diamond ring conscientiously.
Respect is one of the basic values in human beings' dignity. Many successful relationships have been built based on uniform political or religious beliefs, but it still all boils down to respect. Respect is based on the notion that both partners are equal, that the power and control inside the relationship be equally shared. In a relationship, respect means listening to each other, valuing each other's opinions, and also understanding each other's emotions.
If you want to make yourself respectable to your girlfriend, here are some helpful tips:
1. First of all, it is very critical to have self-respect. Please treat yourself with respect. If she notices that you do not have any respect for yourself, she might consider not showing that to
you either, because she thinks it not vital to you after all.
2. What you take is what you give: if you want to be respectable, show respect to others. Everyone wants to be admired and appreciated. If you show your girlfriend that she is important to you, you will easily be in their good graces. Be attentive, give compliments, and make her feel comfortable with you when you're together. Simply admire the person whom you are beside with and listen carefully when she talks. I assure, she'll love spending time with you.
3. Relax. Women think men are mediocre because they think men have a dull personality. So, when you have a date with her: unwind and have fun, so she could feel great about you, because if she finds you are boring, you may get dumped. If you can make her feel good, she will respect for how a funny guy you are, because you'll be the person whom she can rely on, whom can make her grin even when she is very sad.
4. Do not lie. We all now that women don't like being lied to. If she caught you with a lie, she would definitely not have any respect for you any more. But, if she perceives that you are truthfully sincere to her at all times, she will be proud of you and have more and more respect for you.
5. Be confident and polite. Look into her eyes when she talks and make her feel that you are a person whom she can put her trust in. Show her that she can talk with you about any subjects or any problems that she has concerned about and can count on you for help at any time. Do not forget to be courteous, this will bring a reciprocal respect to you.
When you are in a relationship, you should be treated with respect, which means your girlfriend
should act like this:
- She lets you feel comfortable about being yourself
- She is able to admit when she is wrong
- She is willing to compromise
- She respects your opinions, feelings and friends
- She tries to resolve conflicts by talking honesty
- She accepts when you’re saying "No" at things that you don't agree with
So, take a careful observation at your relationship and look out if your girlfriend is making all of these things to you or not, and if not - you should try these tips to make her respect you.