For most young career people, they find nearly 35% of their time spent at workplaces other than at homes. That accounts to almost 9 hours a day of work, work, and work.
For this reason, most of the office people involved in this kind of situation find themselves out of the world because they simply find themselves not having time to meet other people anymore. That is why when such surveys are conducted, which show that 67.8% of the respondents, who work in different companies, are into the relationships with their colleagues. Due to time constraint and lack of social time, most of them choose to divert getting into the relationships at the office instead.
Being together - face to face - for more than 40 hours every week of the year, workplace seems to be a natural bleeding ground for such couples getting into romantic relationships naturally. Insiders unveil that a relationship in the office is inevitable because most of them happen to get along well spontanenously or must get along well with each other because of work; gradually, conflict subsides and good relationship builds. For instance, they revolve around the same environment 9 hours a day sharing common ideas of work, common interests, beliefs and backgrounds.
However, because of professional etiquette implemented at the office, companies despise the idea of having their employees being involved with each other into the relationsip. The boss believe that romantic relationship may bring negligence into the jobs. For those who cannot help when working in such situation as this and fall in love, here are some tips to keep you out of the brink of disaster:
1. Think first before deciding
Before deciding on whether or not to getting yourselve involved in a relationship at workplace, it is better to think first, probably a hundred times. Try to contemplate on possible consequences and benefits that you can get from the relationship. If the relationship does not work out, will you be ready to face the consequences?
2. Evaluate the prospect
Getting yourself involved into a relationship with a colleague should primarily be based on whether or not he/she is worthy for a date. You should evaluate on dating the person based on his/her position in the company, their prosperites, and the possible corollaries of the separation if it ever happens. For instance, if you wish to ask your colleague out for a date, try to contemplate first on the issues of rivalries between you and your officemates as well as the rough situation which you may encounter afterwards if breakup ever happens. Moreover, try to look on possible angles of biasness if boss dates their subordinates. The issue of “favoritism” may take place, and gossip among your employees may distract your concentration at work.
3. Be smart
Keep in mind the reason why God placed our minds above our hearts because He wanted the mind to rule above all. So if you are suddenly being snooped by some seniors in the office, do not be deceived yet. You may try to test out this person first with some tasks to assess his creditibility towards you. Such tasks should be focused on: Does he truly want to go to the end with you with happy ending?
Romance at workplace might occur at diverted scenarios, however, it would be better to hear these kinds of relationships can come to the end with such happy endings.
There are of many ways of expressing your love to her other than quoting the usual words "I Love You." Oftenly, the fire in relationships dies down along the road after a while and the feeling of her heart pounding with excitement when being with her significant half is not felt as strong as it was at the beginning. So, how would we get back that love, passion and warm feelings that once wrap around us in the beginning of the relationship?
There is a traditional saying "actions speak louder than words", so I have listed here 5 secrets of seductions that can help you show your partner how much truly you love her:
Flirt is a light-hearted seduction with the intention of conveying love! Why are you not sending a sexy text message or email while you be at work? This would remind the other person that you are thinking about her, it also increases the intensity of her love to you, thus, she would feel aroused and cannot keep looking forward to seeing you at home as soon as she is off from work.
According to Feng Shui, the colour of seduction of candles is red, and the ingredients are musk, patchouli, pine, cedar and juniper. And according to rumours from the acient time, this Feng Shui's secret of seduction can put back the romance in your relationships. Thus, why don't you fill your room with scented candles and turn off the lights just to relax in each others' arms? Only an extra effort strenghthens your relationship a long mile!
There is a rumour said that "the way to a man's heart is through his stomach," however, this thought seems to be also the secret of winning women's hearts too. Unveil your burning love to her by setting up a surprise dinner for you two with a focus on her. Add flowers, soft music in a romance restaurant to create and maintain a seductive love net among you. Please pay attention, you are forgetting one more ingredient that you cannot miss to adding to your romantic dinner, that is food. Do you know that: aphrodisiac foods such as oysters, chili, chocolate, figs, honey and walnuts are said to succour in stimulating your loved ones' hormones.
4. Love Letters and Poems
Why wouldn't you leave a love note for your loved one? This could be posted in the bathroom or kitchen before you leave for work. You may also leave a nice love poem under the pillow so that she can find it at night before bedtime or first thing in the morning. Or sending a hand-written love letter to his/her work address. These will stir up the fire of love in the privacy of your bedroom as well as in your relationship. If you want more ideas of how to write such love letters and poems, which for sure inspire of her love for you, such quotes can be taken from music or love poem books.
5. Get Away
Distractions in relationships are unavoidable such as work or children. Therefore, getting away alone with only you two together to warm-up your relationship is an option recommended. There are many short private vacations available for the weekend or just for a day. You may arrange a trip to the countryside, staying in a hotel over the weekend so that you can experience in a different environment than usual where you can both relax and concentrate on each other.
Using those five techniques showing your love to her will spice up your love life, strengthen your relationship, and keep her faithful with you for years - guaranteed !